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Car hacks for traveling with kids. Making the best out of your Road Trips when traveling as a family. Best Games, Food, Activities for everyone!
At the end of our first year in Joburg we headed to the Transkei for Christmas. It was the longest road trip we had ever done. We drove the route over 2 long days which looking back will be one of the most memorable trips we have taken for good and bad reasons. Good: Beautiful scenery and the sense of adventure in the new routes undertaken. Bad: locking the keys and the dogs in the car, a burst oil pipe and driving through the largest thunder storm over Van Buren pass (at night) in years. What a journey, loved (in hindsight) every minute.
After we finally arrived we met our lovely neighbours. They were a South Africa family that have been coming to the same spot for generations, and they all had driven down in one go, it was clear that South Africans know all about road trips!! Our Zimbabwean friends make our road trips look tame, and border crossing are for a whole new post!. We are learning, and now Road Trips are something we have come to love and don’t think twice about jumping in the car for a weekend away to Durban (5/6yrs) or out to Madikwe (4/5yrs).
Are you heading away over the December holidays? Come pick up hints and tips to stay safe and enjoy the experience on our monthly Webinar - 5th December.
This year we are driving 16 hours down to Cape Town with twin boys (2yrs) and our girl (4yrs) and ridgeback dog, which is going to take some preparation.
Here is my research to date, which covers - route selection, places to stay and other tips for making it the best road trip ever!!
Johannesburg to Cape Town some 1400 km on the N1 - put it into your sat nav and it will say continue on this road for 1,401 kilometres.......
Option 1: N1
- Leave Joburg on M2
- Take M1 N to Christian Barnard St/M60
- Take N1 exit to Cape Town
- Pass through Bloemfontein
- Beaufort West
- In to Cape Town via the Wine Lands
Route 2: 1519km
Not much more than standard 1400km on N1, route taken from Traveller 24
- Joburg - Kimberley
- Kimberly N12 to N1 at Three Sisters
- Continue N1 through Beautfort west
- N12 - Outdshoorn
- Outdshoorn to George
- George - N2 - Cape Town
Route 3: The Ultimate Road Trip of South Africa
Around 2,500Km Route supplied by South Africa To
Leave Joburg N3 - Vaal River
- Head onto R26 towards Bethlehem
- Clarens - R712 - R711 towards Ficksburg
- Fouriesburg change from R711 onto R26 (again)
- At Ficksburg you will enter Lesotho
- Lesotho visit Maseru
- Head back into SA back on R26
- Rouxville - N6
- Then head onto R58 crossing the Orange River
- R56 towards Middelburg
- N9 South to Graaff Reinet
- N12 to Oudtshoorn
- George - Mossel Bay
- N2 Heidelberg (start Garden Route)
- Cape Town
Going to Eastern Cape - Portfolio collection
Not heading to Cape Town but Plet or Port Elizabeth - Click here for Back Road Route, highlighting some wonderful stop overs and places to eat along the way.
Where to Stop
N1 route: Day 1
1. Windmill casino in Bloemfontein (the Spur) has a good play area for the kids and off the road so the dogs can run around a bit.
3. Service Stations / Petrol Stations - usually have a Steers which is good for quick stop
- Beaufort West (small town in Cape Karoo) - 930Km from Joburg and 460Km to Cape Town, so majority of your drive will be done on day 1
If this is too far to drive in one day - you can stop off in Colesberg at Kuilfontein Stable Cottages
or half way at the Bloemhof
Take the additional day to head to Graaf Reinet and Camdeboo National Park, fellow blogger 2summers has a great write up of this beautiful stop over. READ IT HERE
Or slight D Tour to Gariep Dam - DeStijl Hotel
Day 2 stops: standard N1 route:
1. Matjiesfontein - very cute little town. Nice to grab lunch at the coffee shop, dogs can sit out back with you. Nice to walk around the town as well.
Kimberly Route 2:
Stay at Country Club Kimberly
There are also lots of little Farm Stalls on route, selling uniquely South African items such as Rose Geranium Cordial, Lamb and mint Pies, Fig Jam and Biltong. Check out Food Jams post by Jade de Waal
• Leave early to avoid queues at the tolls
• Have a map and backups to your GPS
• Take enough small change / cash for the tolls (don’t accept foreign credit cards, and only some accept south african credit cards)
• The big petrol stations have grassy areas for the dogs so make great pit stops.
• Stick to Speed Limit (usually - 120km/h major routes / 100km/h secondary roads, and 60km/h in towns)
• Pull over into hard shoulder (yellow line) to let cars pass and then thank other drivers by flashing your hazard lights.
• Make sure you have your drivers licence on you and certified photocopies of your passports (or actual passports)
• Don’t leave your bag or valuables in the car when stopping at service station and double check manually your car is locked as car jammers (systems that block your automatic central locking) operate over the holiday season.
• Avoid traveling in the dark (the conditions of the roads aren’t always great, and often deserted).
Emergency Numbers to have in your phone:
The best advice I have is to download this app! It literally enables you to get the support you need where ever you are in country.
• ER24 paramedics: 084 124
• Police/Fire Department: 10111
• Ambulance: 10117
• Arrive Alive Call Centre: 0861 400 800
• Netcare Emergency: 082 911
Also your insurance details, who to call in emergency and break down.
Please note - most of this article is advice I have collected over the years, I personally haven’t driven the route (my husband and father stayed at Kuilfontein Stable Cottages and loved it - but the other suggestions are all word of mouth)
Moving house is part of expat life, whether its to move abroad, or because your landlord decides to sell. No matter how many times we do it, the chances are there will be some tears, and a lot of stress. But once you are all in - here's our top tips on creating your home.
1. Memories are important, the physical objects not so much.
There are a few items we will always pack with us where ever we move. Our dinning room table is the most important. This is where we have had our most precious family time, when we are sat around together, thats home for us.
Maybe you love your gardening tools, or your kids boots and umbrellas, make a feature of them, by adding a beautiful coat rack or hat stand in your entrance, so the whole family see them whenever they come in.
- What objects do you have that bring this same sense of home? Maybe is a cuckoo clock, particular children’s books?
2. Display your Memories, asap
You will be amazed how quickly a building becomes yours once your artwork, and photo’s are on the walls. Get them up asap, you can always move them around later.
3. Re-create your routines / habits
If you have your medicine’s in the same cupboard as your linen, and lightbulbs then recreate that in your new home. Try to keep similar things together, if you don’t have a shoe cupboard now, then make a similar cupboard in another room, containing the same items that used to be in your hallway.
If you are always loosing your keys and wallet, create a space for them as soon as you come through the door, a tray or small box works perfectly.
4. Get Inspired, search on Instagram, Pinterest, magazines, hotels, lodges.......
Get inspired by the local design and architecture. There are so many beautiful images online now, you can see how to make the best of your new home. For example in South Africa, you will spend most of your time outside and entertaining, so you will want to have nice patio furniture, whereas if you are living in Tokyo, you will want clever storage solutions.
5. Go "local"
Whilst I am a big fan of decluttering, buying a local piece of art, or homeware is such a lovely way to remind you of your previous homes and experiences. I still spend hours wondering through antique shops and interior design outlets, learning about particular features of african design.
6. Buy flowers
A bunch of fresh flowers, whether picked from the garden or brought from the florist just brings a smile to my face every time.
For more inspiration and to be connected to our team of Interior Designers to come give you advice at your home. Hire your own Personal Assistant who can arrange a recommended Interior Designer to come to your home and access our discounts with a range of local suppliers.
This year shop locally for your Christmas Gifts, here is our selection of luxury african gifts for the whole family.
30 of us gathered to have great coffee without overlooking a car park, meet like minded people, and take the time to rethink our careers! It was a fantastic morning.
“You have given me so much to go away and think about, thank you so much.”
As people arrived at the brand new Milk Bar, just off Sandton Drive, they ordered their coffee, eat some delicious brunch and then had a fun quiz to introduce themselves to new people.
With new friendships made, and tummies full, we sat down to be welcomed by Hannah Pirnie, founder of Translating Me and visionary behind the event. She challenged us all to widen our approach to our career paths, that there is a whole host of opportunities available that can meet our passions and talents.
Tessa Graham, followed with her own personal story of how she has worked her way around the world reinventing her career, and applying for many visa’s.
Her tip - to work out your why, what it is that will motivate you and why you are doing it.
Catherine, originally from Ireland, shared how to refocus and humble yourself to re-qualify in order to practice professionally here, before Diana shared her story of starting up a blog.
Nicola founder of the Facebook group Trailing Spouse, shared how she has managed to focus on personal development in every country managing to learn new skills through a variety of projects and passions. She encouraged everyone to get started in something.
The panel were then joined by Hans a immigration expert to answer all the questions on the best type of visa to gain, and possible solutions forward.
“The vision behind Translating Joburg is to encourage expats to leave Joburg in a better place than how you found it. By using your passions and skills to make an impact here. These monthly meetup events are just one of the many ways we aim to achieve this, through our Translating Joburg Membership Club.”
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